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How 1-on-1 singing lessons helped Nik overcome shyness and take his first steps toward joining the church choir

By Wiingy on May 21, 2025

Updated May 21, 2025

How 1-on-1 singing lessons can help overcome shyness and join the church choir

Every singer’s journey begins with a single step, often filled with hesitation and self-doubt.

Nik’s story shows how personalized 1-on-1 vocal lessons helped him overcome shyness and start finding his voice, one quiet, confident note at a time.

Hear Nik’s story from his father

Nik: Listen to Nik’s dad about how he improved his vocal skills after taking singing lessons from Maria, an expert vocal coach at Wiingy

Nik’s journey: From shy listener to aspiring choir singer

Nik, a quiet and thoughtful student from a music-loving family, always enjoyed the atmosphere at church, especially the music. 

Inspired by his friends who were involved in the church’s video and production teams, Nik wanted to participate more actively by singing in the choir. With no prior formal music training, Nik was hesitant at first. 

But his father, who has a strong musical background himself, encouraged him to try 1-on-1 online singing lessons. His dad even joined the initial interview to make sure Nik would be in good hands. 

That’s how Nik started his vocal journey with Maria, a Wiingy vocal coach who quickly helped him feel comfortable and supported.

Why Nik started singing lessons

Though Nik had never studied music formally, his interest in singing was growing. His friends at church encouraged him to try out for the choir, and that became his main motivation. With his dad’s musical knowledge and guidance, they sought out professional lessons, and found Wiingy.

“Nik really enjoys being around music at church, and we thought formal lessons would help him build confidence and see if he could join the choir.”

They chose Wiingy for its flexible scheduling, teacher variety, and affordability. What began as an online trial quickly turned into a consistent and positive learning experience.

If you’re a parent wondering whether your child is ready for voice lessons, this helpful parent’s guide to singing lessons for kids breaks down the signs, benefits, and what to expect.

Real class insight: What Nik worked on with Maria

Nik was a complete beginner, so Maria focused on the foundations, building vocal comfort, breath control, and confidence. The 1-on-1 setting helped Nik relax and engage at his own pace.

Though he was shy at first, Nik began opening up during lessons. He even started experimenting with vocal games and fun “highest note” challenges with his family, small but powerful signs of growth.

Improving vocal confidence: Finding comfort in his own voice

Nik’s biggest challenge was opening up vocally. Like many beginners, especially teens, he was shy about being heard. But Maria’s warm and encouraging teaching style made it easier for him to take small steps forward.

“It’s hard to relax and be goofy when you’re just starting music. But Nik felt more at ease taking the lessons in his room, on his own terms.”

This comfort gave him the confidence to explore his voice privately, an essential first step before performing for others.

The outcome: Gaining confidence and enjoying the process

Nick singing in the church choir
Nick able to fulfil his dream of singing in a choir after taking vocal lessons from Maria, a singing teacher at Wiingy

Nik’s father hasn’t yet heard a full solo performance from him, but that’s okay. Nik’s comfort level has grown. He now sings along with his dad, picks up the guitar, and even joins in lighthearted vocal contests at home.

“We were goofing around, doing a ‘who can hit the highest note’ challenge. That’s more than we’ve ever seen before.”

The family is already seeing signs of a more confident and expressive Nik, proof that growth starts quietly, from within.

Bonus insight: Online lessons helped break the ice

Initially, Nik thought he would prefer in-person music lessons. But once he tried Wiingy’s online sessions, he found them surprisingly effective, and even preferable.

“Being able to take lessons in his own room made it easier to let go of inhibitions. That private, comfortable space really helped him.”

His dad was also impressed with the ease of setup, the range of tutor options, and how user-friendly the platform was—something many parents appreciate when looking for structured, convenient learning solutions.

Whether you’re new to singing or returning after a break, this step-by-step guide to learning singing can help you understand the basics and build a strong foundation.
And if you’re an adult learner supporting your child’s journey or considering lessons yourself, check out this resource: How to learn singing as an adult

What you can learn from Nik’s journey

  • Starting with a supportive coach can help beginners feel safe and motivated
  • Online lessons can provide a private, relaxed space to explore your voice
  • Musical growth doesn’t have to be loud or fast, small signs matter
  • With encouragement and consistent practice, even shy singers begin to open up

Try it yourself – book a free trial

Work with expert vocal tutors like Maria, who can:

  • Help beginners feel comfortable exploring their voice
  • Provide patient, step-by-step guidance from the very first lesson
  • Create a safe and encouraging environment for growth
  • Tailor each session to your goals, pace, and interests

Book your free trial lesson today and take your first step toward discovering your voice, just like Nik did.

Meet the tutor – Maria Corradani

Maria Corradani is a professional vocal coach at Wiingy known for her calm, encouraging, and student-focused teaching style. She specializes in working with beginners and helps students find their voice through gentle technique, confidence-building, and musical play.

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Reviewed by Wiingy

May 21, 2025

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